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Burned Out? You're Bored, Baby...The Key to Attraction is JOY (not Control)

creativity stripped podcast Apr 01, 2025

I’m sitting here with my coffee ☕️thinking about all the people who've reached out to me lately...in really wild transitions.⚡💥

Some are feeling chaotic. Or messy. Or genuinely scared about all the unknowns that are still swirling around them.

And these are the times when it's SUPER easy to fall into the trap of "I have to control & micromanage every single second of my experience to feel safe."

But we all know how that goes, right?😂😭 (hint: badly, lol)

The truth is (I know, because I've been running my biz for over 12 years, which is the ULTIMATE test of faith, surrender & learning how to keep it fun so you don't burn out & end up hating your life, including everything you've worked so hard to build):

Everything changes when you stop chasing & start choosing yourself - and what brings you back to life. 🌻

Not from ego or performance… but from real joy.

From radical aliveness. From being lit the fuck up.🔥

On Monday, I woke up in a weird mood—emotional, low-key drained, definitely not feeling like the productivity queen I tend to be.

I did my chill morning rituals (you know I don’t speak until I’ve had coffee, right😂), meditated, 3 morning pages, watched something inspiring. And then? I cracked open the laptop and...

My body said: Nope.

Not today. We’re not forcing anything. Time for a reset.

So instead?

🛁 I took a long, hot bath at 1pm.

📲 Made a new vision board for my phone background.

🎶 Bought music production gear I’ve wanted for ages—just for the fun of it.

No guilt. No pressure. Just choosing what felt most alive in the moment.

I did the same thing on Tuesday. Laid low. Focused on watching things that inspired me creatively, while I relaxed.

And guess what?

By Wednesday, my creative energy was back. Just 48 hours of leaning back & choosing joy. I recorded new videos, got admin done, heard back from people I’d been waiting on.

Everything flowed—with ease, not with that anxious, panicky scrambling energy or over-efforting.

That’s the shift.

That’s the key to attraction:

You don’t attract when you're chasing, pushing & forcing.

You attract & become SUPER magnetic when you're genuinely immersed in what makes YOU happy, turned on & excited about your own life. 🔥🌹🐝

If you’ve been:

  • Waiting for someone to finally choose you
  • Strategizing your day down to the minute hoping & praying cash will land
  • Pushing content out (from a headspace of scarcity & because it pleases the algorithm, even if it gives you the ick) like your life depends on it
  • Burnt out, overworked, overextended, all up in your head & feeling totally disconnected from your joy & sensuality…

This is your permission to step wayyyyy back & hit the reset button.

Because your turn-on is your "strategy" now. 😝

I dropped a new episode on the STRIPPED Podcast about this exact thing—

It’s only 11 mins (short & sweet for all my ADHD hunnies out there 😂), juicy & a full-body vibe shift if you’ve been feeling stuck in exhaustion or frustration.

🎧 LISTEN NOW on your fave platform: Being Turned On By Your Life IS the Key to Attraction

Big Love,

Ali xx

💌P.S. If your nervous system is fried from trying to fix it all alone…

If you’ve been spiraling in your head & totally ignoring your body…

If you’re craving real forward movement around love, money, your next level of power or your creative path—but you want that shift to feel grounded, playful, sensual & a little bit ✨magical✨—

Book a 60-minute Clarity Session with me. This is where we cut through the noise, get to the root of what's been keeping you drained & create momentum that actually feels good. You’ll leave with crystal clear next steps, intuitive insight & your power back in your hands. 👉 alisonlessard.com/clarity-session

🔥 No more crashing out in fear because things aren't going "according to your plan" or pushing yourself to the max to still be spinning in circles. I've got you.😘

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