I saw a quote by Lorin Krenn on this and asked if you all wanted an elaboration and I got 100% yes on that, so here we go.
Most of us learned pretty distorted ways of relating from our parents, using things like nagging, emotional manipulation, blame, shame and guilt tripping to get needs met.
THERE IS A BETTER WAY, MY LOVES. I promise.
The path to conscious union is through Love, Vulnerability, Truth & Sovereignty.
Learning to meet ourselves deeply & be vulnerable enough to ask our partner for our needs to be met rather than using manipulation or force instead of LOVE, Trust, Softening in the heart, Surrender.
This is why Reintegration of the Sacred Feminine matters.
As within, so without.
As YOU shift from within, as YOU change your behavior and become the embodiment of the change, as you take ownership of your own projections, that’s when your external experience WILL shift for the better. Some people will stay and shift with you, some will fall away.
In any case, your energetic and emotional alignment is 100% YOUR responsibility. Always and forever.
Anything but that is giving away your power.
And until you’re taking total accountability for how you feel, you’re not truly free.
As always, be compassionate with yourself (and your man). These patterns have to be UN-learned and it’s a learning curve.
Conscious Communication is a skill that requires awareness and practice. Self-Mastery is a life long learning!
BE THE CHANGE YOU WISH TO SEE IN THE WORLD.
And let others have the opportunity to learn for themselves on their own terms without your interference (calling all those that learned Codependency as the way to get “worth” or to “feel useful” – I see you, love you and you’ve got this).
Let’s dive in. xx
PS: Having a heart-centered, conscious relationship starts with you tapping into your Feminine wisdom. Enrollment for the Return of Venus Priestess Immersion is still open for 3 more days and closes Friday, May 28th – so if you’ve been thinking about it, I invite you to APPLY HERE and I’ll get back to you ASAP if it’s a good fit for us both.