I used to think I had to “work really hard” to attract what I wanted.
That I had to prove my worthiness by doing THE MOST.
I thought pleasure was an extracurricular – the reward for my hustle & grind.
I thought pleasure was only for weekends.
I thought pleasure was just spa days & face masks & sleeping in.
Except everything is connected.
How you do one thing is how you do everything.
Instead of separating myself from that energy of pleasure, I started choosing to let it permeate everything I do.
I practiced embodying it all of the time rather than as a part-time escape from “reality”.
WE CREATE OUR REALITY.
I decided to uproot all the beliefs that dictated what is & isn’t possible.
Who said pleasure can’t be your reality?
I rewrote that shit!
Infusing a softer approach isn’t weakness – it’s seductive.
Trust and surrender and confidence are magnetic.
It’s hella inviting.
Are you trying to force your business, trying to convince people to work with you, burning out trying to perfect your marketing strategy?
Are you chasing a lover or scrambling on dating sites, trying to convince them you’re the best choice or sending out vibes of fear, scarcity & desperation?
Not super sexy, right?
Be the type of person that people crave to be around because your vibe is that appealing.
Because it’s coming naturally.
Because you’re emanating that radiance from within.
Trust that you’ll receive when you’re the embodiment of what you want to create.
We might be told that we can’t “have it all” or that “good things don’t come easily” – but I say f*ck that because it CAN be a whole lot more pleasurable to bring your dreams into fruition.
You make the rules.
Make new ones if the old ones aren’t working.
PLEASURE IS THE NEW GRIND.